b2ap3_thumbnail_parents-sideline.jpgIn our quest to help the younger soccer players improve, we may have started something that is more harmful than helpful.

It is natural for adults to shout encouragement and advice to children as they are playing. The instinct to help is prevalent in all of us.  As role models, however, we may need to take a look at some other more familiar sports and learn from them.

Picture these examples:

You, of course, know that the answer in all the above situations is a loud and resounding – NO!

Knowledgeable coaches realize that during the action of any game, one can only hope that instinct, talent and good basics will bring their players’ movements to successful fruition.  These wise coaches want players to focus and concentrate on the task at hand and to tune out every extraneous sound, including calls from the sideline.

These same coaches go so far as to ask their spectators to refrain from calling players by name or giving any instructions whatsoever. They even take the time to explain to the parents how difficult it is for players to concentrate on the ebb and flow of the game, listen for/to instructions, understand the instruction, and apply the instruction while being pressured by an opponent.

Some facts to consider:

We have an opportunity to set a trend by having coaches adhere to the Laws of the Game — stay inside the designated coaching area, observe their team in action, take notes of points to cover during half-time and weaknesses to improve at the next practice session.

We also have an opportunity to set a trend by marking out a “spectator-line” at every field to  encourage spectators to observe their team in action from behind this line and cheer/applaud good play by both teams.